So, girls..this one is for you. The last few weeks I have been thinking a lot about the time and energy we put into trying to impress a guy. Usually one we are friends with, as we try to get out of that stupid friend zone. And you know what I think? I think guys know exactly what they are doing with that awful zone they have put us in!
I know...it might seem crazy....but listen. How often do you drop everything you are doing to make sure they are okay? How often are you the one to send the first text message? What about phone calls? When do you have to change your plans to fit his needs? See where this is going? We try so hard...so hard and for what? To hear about the other girls in their lives lucky enough to just get a more then friendly look from them? Or, if they are feeling overly chatty we get more information then we could possibly want, that those guys don't understand is breaking our hearts while we just grin and bare it.
Then, there is of course the turning point when we decided to discreetly put it all on the line. We make it as obvious as we can without fully telling them how we feel and guess what? They ignore it. Why you ask? Well...they like things the way they are. They don't have to do a thing for this relationship. We do all the work. We want to hang out? We make the plans. If things were to change into more than friendship...he'd have to do more work! They want us to want them so much that we don't look too much at other guys...that way we can be at their disposal whenever they want us.
They are ruining us for anyone else. They are so perfect in our eyes that for the future, we'll always be comparing them to any love interest. It's sad...but that's the reality of falling for one of these guys. I promise if you can be strong and wait for them to initiate the first text or plan a day to hang out...you'll feel so much more appreciated.
For you girls brave enough to try and put it on the line...I hope it works better for you than it ever has for me.
But ladies, be strong. You'll be worth the wait. He'll see it one day, if not there will be a man out there that's worth all your time and energy. And he'll text you first. ;)
Love you all like mad! Until next time!
XO
Kymber.
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